Moving on from Cancer

When you have had a cancer diagnosis, you may be shocked to find out that people around you, that you were best buddies with, just don't get it.

There can be a sense of isolation from what you knew you were capable of doing, and how your friends and family members treat you.

An idea ruminated in my brain as I was going through the early or "newbie" stage of my cancer journey, I felt isolated and alone at the hospital, when nurses and doctors and technicians were hurling medical jargon at me that I hadn't fully understood the impact of on my life - I thought to myself that there had to be a better way. At the point that I started feeling better, I knew I didn't want to live my life as I had been - stressed out, overworked and bullied. I was bound and determined to take this very lucky second chance at life that I have been given and give back: to those who would follow with a cancer diagnosis..

I had no idea what it was I was going to do, exactly, but I was very determined I was going to change my approach to life in general. No more was I going to put up with bullies, I was going to kill them with kindness if I could. I wasn't going to waste hours on things that were not important any longer, I was going to make sure my husband and my son knew that they were appreciated for everything they did for me during my treatment and recovery. I was going to make sure that no one else who got a cancer diagnosis would have to be alone with it all.

So I made a plan, and I worked that plan. It's taken me a few years to implement it all, but finally, I am in a place where I can finally say I am satisfied. I am in a new job that holds new challenges for me, I love my personal growth. My relationship with my husband, son and new daughter in law is stronger than ever, and that is such a good space to be in emotionally. I took the training to become certified as a Peer Support Group Facilitator, I found a meeting space that would work, and have worked tirelessly to Peer Support women who have had any cancer diagnosis. There is healing and discovery in every Peer Support that I am entrusted to provide, I am honored each time someone lets me in to share in their journey.

I invite you to come and share your journey with us, ask us the questions that those who have not been there can't answer for you. Share with us your wisdom and how it is working on your journey thus far, whether newly diagnosed or years out of formal treatment and anywhere in between: we are here to support one another, from a place that a cancer diagnosis unites us all.

Please check the Details page for our next meeting date. Until then, we are here for you by email or phone call.

Take care,

L